So I'm basically in the same boat, got acres of granite boulders to split up. Lately I've been using Dexpan, and I'd recommend giving it a try before anything else. For $100 you can see how it works and see what you think of it. I was resistant to it at first, given the cost, but it's so stupidly easy I'm starting to think it's easily worth it for the casual rock splitter.
But, back to the topic. In my research, the only hydraulic rocker splitters out there are the German-made DARDA's, and lots of various Chinese clones of the DARDA. I have no idea if the Chinese ones are even available outside of China. The DARDA seems to start at $10k and up. The Chinese ones are maybe $2k.
As for the splitting force, DARDA units run off of 7100 PSI power packs. Digging around, I've found numbers that say the cylinders on them are in the 3.25 to 4.25" range (depending on model). Looking at the pictures, this looks about right too.
So, breaking out the hydraulic calculator, a 4" cylinder @ 7100 PSI, generates 90,000lbs of push. At 3000psi, the equivalent is a 6" cylinder. Alternatively, you could buy a separate 10,000psi power pack and drop back down to a 3.25" cylinder.
Now then, that's just the raw push force. The actual splitting force comes from the wedges, which magnifies that greatly. The DARDA models talk about splitting forces in the 1-2 million pound range. So the design of the wedges and counter-wedges is probably critical. Both to generate that much force, and then to withstand it without bending.
Best I can tell, the wedges are really tricky to design and make. You have a hard limit of them needing to fit in a 1.5-2" hole. So you can't just add more material to make them stronger. Which means material selection becomes really really important, probably need something crazy strong: 1144, 4140, maybe E52100?
Anyhow, as you can probably guess, I started designing & building a hydraulic rock splitter a few months ago. I got a couple parts of it done, but have been stalled out on the wedge design. If you still think you want to give it a try, I can upload all my research files I dug up from around the internet.
But for now though, I'm happily paying the Dexpan price.