If your flow plug indicator is small coil of wire then it is in series with glow plug circuit. It is just like a resistance heater. It sized and calibrated to glow red in a several second so you would have a visual indication of adequate glow plug time. They can get oxidized when they turn on and of cycles. The only time it melts right away is if it is grounded somehow. just used a small piece of copper wire, low gauge purpose 16 or 18 and install it where indicator wire is, put the voltmeter on the glow plug wire lead and see if you can get 12 volt at the glow plug. if your short piece of wire melts again then you have a short. Find the short before you put a new glow indicator wire on. Your short piece of low gauge wire is pretty much acts like a fuse.