wjoerob
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Brother-in-law's been married 20 yrs., has a daughter age 16. Wife tells him she wants a divorce. Goes to counseling, makes no difference. She is being influenced by a circle of friends also divorcing or already divorced. He's doing everything she asks, but she tells him, "It doesn't matter, you can never be the man I want you to be." Goes back and forth, still living together, sometimes she's cold to him, sometimes she's all hugs and kisses. He's already going to AA because she insisted. The rest of us didn't think he really had a drinking problem.
So last Friday he's told he's laid off for at least 2 months, maybe longer. The final divorce hearing is Nov. 1, so it all comes at once. We're praying like crazy for him, helping where we can. This is a good-hearted man, but he's wondering what else can happen next. Divorce is always selfish, you know? It always hurts everyone around.
So last Friday he's told he's laid off for at least 2 months, maybe longer. The final divorce hearing is Nov. 1, so it all comes at once. We're praying like crazy for him, helping where we can. This is a good-hearted man, but he's wondering what else can happen next. Divorce is always selfish, you know? It always hurts everyone around.