Ohio,
Your tractor doesn't need to be HST to have a useable internal hydraulic pump for your loader. The fluid level is low because you have more volume to fill now that you have all the runs to the loader components. Just top it off to make up for it. The pump on the 3point won't wear out because you put a loader on it. I believe it is pumping all the time regardless of whether you are lowering or raising the 3pt.
I don't know what is causing it to be slow, though. It might be you don't have enough fluid and/or have air in the system due to low fluid levels at the pump. But it could just be you have large cylinders. What size are you using?
If you get an external pump with higher capacity, like go from 4gpm to 10 gpm or more, then it would operate more quickly but I recommend you try adding fluid to your system first and see if it improves.