I think your machinist friend must have misunderstood your question.
I don't know the material composition of backhoe booms, but it is common to weld on them. In fact, if you look at any 310 boom you can see that they are entirely fabricated by welding. Out in the field, serious welding to the boom is typical when mounting a thumb & for other jobs. My JD (yellow) dealer does welding at his shop and so do a number of local portable welders.
Most of the joints on the 310 backhoe and FEL have replaceable pins and bushings from the factory. The bushings don't just "mush out" - they are standard from the factory and last a long time. Replacing them is standard maintenance. JD310s have been built that same way for decades.
Something confusing is I've not heard backhoe & FEL booms called "towers". But the US is a large place; it could be a local term.
I checked in the parts manual when looking up the arms, booms, pins, and bushings.... and couldn't find the anything for towers. I figure on doing some bushing and pin replacements myself on our 310 this year. Closing in on 7000 hrs on the 310, and most of that was demolition & concrete work. So both ends could stand new bushings at least. Hopefully not too many pins.
Machinists generally know their materials. I worked my way through school as a machinist & welder. My guess is that your friend is thinking of something else.
rScotty