Update. Problem is still there. Not as bad and still not CEL/code. I checked and the mechanic did replace the right coil and plug (whole job, parts and labor $115 which I thought was reasonable). So, possible options include: 1) The misfire is not due to the coil or plug. Could be injector related but seems doubtful. Would expect some other code for that possibly. 2) There is another misfire on another cylinder. I will not know until it throws another code.......while I have the OBD reader in because that #$%^ light goes off and on even when there is a "severe misfire" according to the code. 3) It isn't misfire and maybe it IS the transmission still. Seriously doubt this is the case. As the #2 cylinder misfire was getting worse and the CEL finally came on it was the exact same symptoms just more and worse.
I think I am going with diagnosis 2. It is common when one coil/plug is going bad for the others to follow. Mechanic has quoted me $225 to replace remaining 7 spark plugs. I can get a whole set of coils for $150 so I'm looking at $400 to get the whole job done. It might not solve the problem but it is time to do the plugs anyway.
The truck I want to buy is a 2012 Nissan Titan Pro-X4. They're running close to $30k used with around 30k miles on them.:shocked::shocked::shocked:
So if replacing all plugs and coils works, I'll keep driving this truck. If not, time to get a loan and buy a used truck.