Wife and I could easily live off our pensions and SS. The IRAs, 401Ks, etc. are backup and security for us and our families. Generational wealth that was passed on to us and will be passed on to our daughters. I am working on the oldest grand now, trying to teach her how to save and what it means to have the security and peace of mind that comes from having a cash reserve.
I am now making two car payments. I bought a new vehicle in April of 2024 and took the money out of investments to pay cash. Dumba$$ move. Fund was down when I pulled the money out and started back up the next month. Made the vehicle cost a lot more than it should have. Look at it this way, the fund I sold out of had dropped to $28/share when I pulled the money out. Thirty days later it was around $34/share. Arrggghhhh, what a dummy! So my oldest liked my new vehicle so much I bought her one to even up some inheritance issues. (Youngest bought land and house from my wife and her sister at a bargain price). And I make payments on that vehicle. That fund has now climbed to the upper $40/share range. So I made a good choice. Recently I loaned the money to oldest grand to purchase a vehicle. I'm gonna make payments on that one too rather than pull the money out. That one will end up costing me no matter which way I go BUT she has sat down with me and discussed money issues. It will be worthwhile if I can get it in her head how to manage her money. Her mom has good money sense but her dad still likes to buy the newest fad. He is coming around but I still haven't got him to be a tightwad like me.
RSKY
I am now making two car payments. I bought a new vehicle in April of 2024 and took the money out of investments to pay cash. Dumba$$ move. Fund was down when I pulled the money out and started back up the next month. Made the vehicle cost a lot more than it should have. Look at it this way, the fund I sold out of had dropped to $28/share when I pulled the money out. Thirty days later it was around $34/share. Arrggghhhh, what a dummy! So my oldest liked my new vehicle so much I bought her one to even up some inheritance issues. (Youngest bought land and house from my wife and her sister at a bargain price). And I make payments on that vehicle. That fund has now climbed to the upper $40/share range. So I made a good choice. Recently I loaned the money to oldest grand to purchase a vehicle. I'm gonna make payments on that one too rather than pull the money out. That one will end up costing me no matter which way I go BUT she has sat down with me and discussed money issues. It will be worthwhile if I can get it in her head how to manage her money. Her mom has good money sense but her dad still likes to buy the newest fad. He is coming around but I still haven't got him to be a tightwad like me.
RSKY