So, we were back to talking about this tonight; son got a financial summary sheet;
$3200 tuition (per semester)
$600 books and supplies estimate
$3958 housing and mandatory meal plan
$1200 transportation
$400ish "other"
Subsidized student loans $1500
Unsubsidized student loans $1250
He 'should' get 75% tuition paided by a state scholarship.
So, we where looking, and I pulled up a sample of spring classes; and showed of the 3 classes; #A-2 of 10 where 100% online; #B-8 of 10 where 100% online; and #C was all in person, includes a biology lab.
We then looked at a 75 mile each way, drive, 2 days per week, at 20 mph, or $60/week (at $4 gas), or roughly $720 in fuel vs $4000 in room and meal plan.
Also, kinda explained the numbers simply don't work. Trying to avoid the fight, we are just talking about a Math problem and $2750 in loans is Less than the $9360 the school says it costs. Even with the scholarship, that's scholarship and loans at $5150 which is Still less than $9360. It hard to bank on him making $16k/year while attacking school. He is actively applying for several other minor scholarships, that could potentially be from a $3000 single payment, to a $500-1000/semester scholarships. Those would change the math somewhat, but you can't count on those until the check clears, and it still doesn't add up the way he wants.
I did pretty much tell him, 1st the summer semester, before the main scholarship takes affect, no way he can do on campus living. Then, I would avoid it, But you are committed; if he gets into it, and finds he's stuck taking 4 or 5 days of in person; then on campus (or crapy trailer park closer) are always still an option in the future.
Then, the next part, at $2750 in federal student loans, for 12 semesters (should take more than 10, but trying to include 'contingency'), that's like $33k total loans, over 4 years. How the heck are people A: spending $275k of a non doctorate; and B: how the heck are they getting that much in loans?
We also discussed his girlfriend plan. She is getting 100% tuition, and some low income help (free applications, some minor fee waivers), but she's not entirely sure how she's going to cover her house (she's going 3 hrs NW, he's going 1.5 hr NE). And apparently, in her orientation, they Strongly recommended not working for the initial year, as it's a high Weed Out program.