Y'all can have your opinions. But, when I was a kid, I stayed outside every waking moment I didn't have to be inside...suburbs of New Orleans. I didn't worry about kidnappers, child molesters, or other deviants because I never heard of them...nor did my friends. We camped out, built tree houses, shot BB guns everywhere, roamed pretty much an entire square mile all the way to the Mississippi River. When we did something wrong, we got our arse's whipped, both at school and at home(sometimes both for the same offense)....and I deserved every lick I got. Whipping kept us in line because we feared pain, feared our elders....that fear later turned to respect. Every decent kid I grew up with turned into a responsible adult that has a job, and a family they provide for with no aid from the gubberment. Yes, there were bad kids back then that had no fear and were incorrigible...don't know what happened to them, but prison is a good bet. My point is, back then there was a strict order, it was black or white...no grey area, no time out's, no group discussions about your feelings and most important there was a consequence for your actions. There really is a looser and a winner in every thing we do, and there was no pat on the back or a trophy when a game was lost. Loosing sucks, and that is incentive to try harder, practice, study, train. That is life, whether folks nowadays admit it or not.
I worked 27 years 2 months and 16 days as a public servant, retired, built a house, and continue to work by buying property and houses that need work. It's hands on work, just like my career and I would not change one single thing about my life. For me the good 'ole days were exactly that and I fear the values and standards that {we} as a society have let slide will be the ultimate ruin of us all.