So sorry for the loss and what you must be going though.
Time will heal all wounds, but damn, 56 years will take some time.
My deepest and most sincern condolenses, may God be with you...
Thanks for posting this Willy. We here as a community would never know about this otherwise and we want to help. I can only imagine but it must be terribly hard for you to deal with this and I hope support from this community will help.
Eric