Sigarms
Super Member
As mentioned, my parents only had me as their only child. My other 44 aunts and uncles between my mom and dad's side generally had more than 3 kids per family.Set up your Trust to delegate who gets the tractors. Then tell the groom that you'll just stay in the background, cleaning your guns.
Issue is, sometimes the apple does fall far from the tree.
Don't get me wrong, my parents were better people than myself.
Thing is, I have have my own issues, but in general I think I've done ok for myself before I met my wife, and a large part of that was my parents love. Thing is, my wife and I have a lot in common, but we also have a lot not in common. We kind of make up a good team where we lack with ourselves, because the other half makes up for it.
I love my Mother In Law like she's my own mom. I loved my Father In law like he's my own dad. Thing is, if I would have either of their siblings as a "In Law", I have no doubt that my life would be bat ***** crazy LOL (and I have had this same discussion with both my in laws and wife and they all agree, although my FIL died last year).
I've come to the conclusion (even here), no two siblings may be alike when they grow into adults even though they were raised with the same household with the same parents and with the same rules and "principals" being raised.
Have 3-5 kids, good luck without ticking someone off thinking you didn't love them on what you leave to them in their trust