Yesterday I was able to get my tractor into a well lighted garage and start troubleshooting the cold starting issue. Using information/tips gained on this forum, I started by using my test light, putting the aligator clip on a good grounding spot and touching the probe tip to the end of each glow plug while turning the key on thru the timing cycle. The light worked on all three and shut off after a few seconds.
I then removed the 2 copper buss wires that join the top of the 3 glow plugs in serial very carefully as to not lose the tiny nuts and washers and set those aside . (you probably want to work over a clean floor as if you lose these out in the dirt, would be hard to find. Also a magnetized screw driver or other item is useful in picking up the tiny washers off the studs).
Next for the spark test, I took a test wire I have with aligator clips on both ends and pulled the boot back on the positive post of the starter and clipped one end to that and the other end to the shaft of a screwdriver. I touched the top of each glow plug , making sure I was getting contact. One threw off a spark and 2 didn't. I took the air compressor and blew off the area around each plug. I turned the 2 bad plugs out a few turns and then blew off again. These had been painted over at factory (13 yrs old and never removed) so when turning them out some paint was flaking off. I removed the 2 bad glow plugs and also used my shop vac to suck any remaining debris from the holes. I then took the 2 glow plugs out to my car and with jumper cables attached positive to the glow plug top and the negative to the threaded body and hooked up to my car battery. There was no heating up of either plug.
I called my tractor dealer (who is 45 min away) ,decided it made sense to replace all 3 while I was at it, so he had them in stock and so I was able to get them and put them in and get everything back together by late afternoon. Yes, I could have probably found some cheaper, but I believe in supporting my dealer as I have gotten lots of free advice and help from him over the years... plus a visit gives me a chance to shoot the bull and drool over the new tractors....LOL. Also, it would be a quick trip and get things done.
So last night , 21 degrees ...and I had to test this morning. Started right up. We'll be getting some single digits in the next few days so I'll be getting a chance for some real world testing. Anyhow, short story long, I never had to get to the part of verifying exactly where the glow plug relay is located...no need to test at this point.
Thanks for all the good info on this forum and help from fellow members.
Sassafraspete