And for the tractor itself, just sticking with TYM for this example, would be considering something like the T264HC (24.1HP, 18.3 PTO HP, and 3920lbs for tractor + FEL + backhoe) would be fine for home and only ~$29k vs the T554HC (55hp, 45 PTO HP, and 6923lbs) at ~46k.
I'm going to ask for...