tjkubota93
Veteran Member
That, to me is (pardon the expression) the old school mentality. The way I was raised, because that's how my dad was raised etc etc. My grandad was Korean war my dad was Vietnam, I was not military. My dad did not have a good home life, mine was great by standards. But I saw how my dad dealt with folks, as he did his. That's how I do. I guess if your raised by useless trash, that's how you will act.I stopped to check out a truck for sale on the side on the road one time and older gentleman stopped right after me to look at it. I forget the asking price, but the other guy said that he just sold that truck to a young guy the day before. Said that he was asking what it's listed for right now, but the young guy gave him such a story that he felt sorry for him and let it go for a lot less then he was asking. Seeing it for sale right away made him feel like he was taken advantage of. I felt sorry for him, but I also thought that he shouldn't care what was done with it once he sold it, just that he got his money for it. But I also understand being lied to.
Alot of people now get offended if you ask can they take less (I would ask 10%). I remember going places with dad and dang near every time he asked, he payed less. I know his dad was a tightwad, so it makes sense, he saw that. I am very careful about asking folks to come down on a price. If its something for sale, I offer what I feel it's worth. If someone gives me a bid on a project, that's their bid, too high, I don't hire them. I figure they tell me what it takes for them to make an honest living, not a killing. I feel it would be an insult to challenge their price.
That old guy was trying to do right, take what he needed (probably needed nothing) and possibly help the next fella who would get honest use out of it. What he needed was less than he probably deserved. The young guy probably did like his parents did and possibly theirs did too. Tell a sob story, get a deal and make out like bandits. Even though they probably dont have a thing to their name......
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