Pump connects first to block 12 in the attached image, which the parts manual lists as Valve Assy, PTO. So the relief valve is part 12-02. If the diagram is correct that side of the assembly is bolted up against the transmission and not accessible.Dirty B
It is hard to tell if that relief on page 146 is for the 3 point or a main system relief. Can you follow the pressure line from the pump to see what it is connected to? First item connected should have the relief valve in it.